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We celebrate our Independence Day
Jennie and Corelyn off to Wardrobe Change # 2.

Question: How many men does it take to light a fire?
Answer: 8 – 6 men, 2 men-fire-dancers-with-gasoline.
Wednesday is….(a guest post)
Cor, who maintains the other half of Garlic, My Soul, had something to say about a hectic Wednesday:
This Wednesday is:
6 AM. Nope not getting up yet. Snooze. 6:50 AM. I guess I should get up now. Well, just a few minutes more. 8 AM. Crap. Could’ve seen that one coming. Checking e-mails while brushing my teeth. Rehearsal dinner fallout. My sister is fed up. Wait, things looking up, second email from sister includes an “lol.” Family is making nice. Thank God. Sad update e-mail from M. MR has already responded to her with encouragement. Good. Shifting gears to check work e-mail. Nothing urgent. Whew. In the car at 8:40. Calling M . Sorry if I wasn’t the right kind of supportive when we talked last night. It’s ok. MR is visiting. Mental note to check flight costs to Roanoke. She should get back to work. Ok, I’ll check in later, I love you, bye. Sudden realization that people still need to lean on me, even while I’m leaning on others. I can do this. “I will carry you there” followed by “I will come to you.” Thank you iPod. I can definitely do this. Get to work at 9:30. Quick stop for coffee and scone. Still no urgent work e-mails. Whew again. E-mail from Jennie. “Where are you?” Panic. “I’m here! What is it?” Bed bugs. Effing bed bugs. Eww. Gross. More panic. Research. Strategizing. 9:50 AM. E-mail to C about the bed bug situation. C rolls with the punches. That’s why we love her. 10:00 AM. Virtual hugs for M in the form of Hanson songs and videos about the bonds of women. More bed bug panic. It just doesn’t stop being icky. Start a playlist for M. 10:30. Another M e-mail update. Things are looking slightly better. Talking to my sister about the wedding. Half a Xanax. Pandora. Oh right, I’m at work. Cross a few things off the to-do list. Bed bug update. Exterminator coming tomorrow. Sister’s wedding update. She’s dealing with it. 11 AM. More planning for tonight with C. She does NOT do tofu. Hilarious. Almost time for lunch. Back to work, first. Can you find the expense code for our team meetings? Yes. Found. Thank you! Male coworkers have suspiciously disappeared to watch world cup game. Wish I could get away with that. Lunch time finally. Heading to the café with coworker L. Meatball sandwiches, REALLY? Oh no, we can’t eat all that. WAIT! We can split it! Genius. Sample request frustration segues into venting fest about Kaiser Permanente insurance. 1:00 PM all the sudden. I think I need more coffee….
Getting back in the swing…
So yesterday Corelyn and I went to yoga, restarting our engines in the work out realm. Over the next few weeks, I plan to take up swimming (and if I’m brave enough, it might be before work) and potentially figuring out how to incorporate outdoor activities into our regular schedules. We’re into tennis, long walks, and kicking the soccer ball around (and sometimes throwing the football.) LA is finally starting to warm up, and with that comes the desire to be outside all of the time.
Meanwhile, tonight I plan on going to the gym straight after work, determined to still get home by 5:30, work out under my belt, 4 and a half hours of evening to do what I please, which tonight includes uploading pictures from PW challenge to Garlic, My Soul, with Corelyn, going to Target for some July 4 necessities, and making a delicious dinner.
I love summer.
This is why you have neighbors you like, carry NatGeo in your purse: alternatively, I love AAA
Once, I was home for a break (summer of ’05, as I recall it) and I was driving the car to Ann Arbor to see some friends. This ended like it usually did: with my trust Volvo breaking down and having to be towed to Corky’s. My mechanic knew me not because he was that good (although he certainly was) but because between our two cars, we seemed to be constantly in his shop.
Anyways, on this particular day, there was something wrong with the car that was going to take all day to fix, and I was left stuck in the waiting area, no book in my purse (which was usually the case, but as this got heavy, and I recently has spent a semester trekking too much crap around the Netherlands and surrounding Europe, I had left my book at home.)
I ended up sitting in that waiting room, calling everyone I knew to chat, until my phone was near death, and reading copies of car magazines from the 1990s. That three hour wait turned me into a firm believer in always carrying reading material on my person.
On Tuesday, when Jeff and I went to vote, I waited outside the polling place, reading National Geographic’s latest magazine on Greenland. Frequently, I find myself random places, waiting for someone or something, reading a bit of NatGeo here, a few pages of my book club book there. Yes, I have an iPhone, but reading the news doesn’t always get me through that tap, tap, tap period of “Where are they? Are they coming? Do I need to call someone?” No, reading something real will always take me away, not caring if they are coming, hoping secretly they are not, so I can keep reading about Greenland or Buddha or the knitting group.
So this morning, when Jeff turned the key and the engine said politely, “No, thank you, I think I’d just as much like to stay off today,” I was prepared. After we were sure it wasn’t just a jump we needed (because we have a neighbor who will at the drop of a hat come out and move her car to help us out, thank you Corelyn for helping us out after I barged into your home at an unreasonable hour) Jeff called AAA. Sure, I was at home. I could have gone upstairs (which I did to check rental car prices) and put makeup on, finished drying my hair, watched a little TV, made some eggs, or generally paced the living room, waiting for the battery guy to show up.
Instead, I plopped myself on the stoop, tried to sit lady-like (“The ONE day the car breaks down, I have to be wearing a DRESS!” I exclaimed to Jeff, after trying to sit comfortably without revealing anything) and read about Greenland. “Did you know that the Inuits traveled to Greenland, migrating northeast? You always hear about people going the other way…” I exclaimed to Jeff. Well, you learn something new every day. So, after the battery guy came, fixed the terminal connection, told us we’d better replace the one we have, and we were on our way to work, I was that much more knowledgeable, and very calm. And, is there a better way to start a work day than late but educated and caffeinated? I think not.
Corelyn’s car pulled up next to ours. Trying to jump it…
The battery guy = amazing. Fixed the terminal in the time it took me to toast and cream cheese a bagel. Fed + car working = perfect day.


