Dear Ms. Suleman, Dr. Phil

Dear Ms. Suleman, and Dr. Phil,

I am concerned about the business venture you’ve begun. Ms. Suleman, It is no surprise that the public has latched onto your story and formulated its opinions. I also have my opinion: The birth of eight children into the world, given its current state, is irresponsible. I do believe you will care and love each of your children, but I wonder if you stopped to think of how you’d care for each of them when they were infants, toddlers, teenagers.

That said, it is not my life, and I don’t intend on imposing my beliefs on others. But I am sorry to hear that Dr. Phil has involved himself into your family’s story.

Dr. Phil, although I understand that Ms. Suleman needs financial and medical help and relief, I disagree with your venture to help raise money for her. Yes, those eight babies need care, love, and food. Yes, I believe someone should help them.

But using your fame, TV show, and career to benefit a woman who made (what some see as an unwise) choice to have eight children (adding to her six she already has) is unreasonable. In a world where stocks are tumbling, people are losing their homes, and there are already thousands of children homeless and malnourished, you are asking people to give a bit of themselves to someone who made a choice.

The choice was Ms. Suleman’s to make, and her doctor’s. Her doctor let her down by allowing the procedure to happen in the first place. But you will be letting her down, and America down, by allowing her unwise choice to continue to manifest by asking us for a handout.

Ms. Suleman has a home, and friends and family. She has a support system. She doesn’t need America’s attention, too. Americans shouldn’t be asked to help out this woman. Ms. Suleman made her life, and others shouldn’t be asked to clean up after her.

Dr. Phil, you should spend your time helping the hopeless, those who truly need it, not helping a woman who has made a media-spectacle of her family.

Ms. Suleman, you’ve made your bed. You know the rest.

Dr. Phil, I’m disappointed. I’d expect more from any doctor.

Thank you,

Jennie

run1 and run2 – Mixes for beginning runners.

Well, I just finished 30 minutes of “10 Minute Solutions” dance mix, which kicked my butt. I liked that better than my originally training plan of “walk for 30 minutes.” That seemed boring.

Meanwhile, I figured I’d share my first two mixes with you. Since my workout is only a half hour, they are short, but wonderful. Here goes.

run1

Carry me Through – Dave Barnes
Light My Candle – Rent Film Cast
Leavin’ – Jesse McCartney
Industry – Jon McLaughlin
Runaway Run – Hanson
American Boy – Estelle and Kanye
If I Am – Nine Days
Narcolepsy – Third Eye Blind

run2

Live Your Life – T.I. featuring Rihanna
Stronger – Kanye West
Pop Game – Josh Kelley
Love Song – Sara Bareilles
Home – Marc Broussard
Less Than Four – Tokyo Rose
She Moves in Her Own Way – The Kooks
Caught Up – Usher

Next Stop: Forks, WA.

forks

Guys, I am off to Forks in less than 48 hours. I am compiling a packing list, and so far, so good. Things on it:

National Geographic (1 issue)
Montana Sky (our book club book)
Garlic
NYTimes Crossword book
Sunglasses
Wooden stake
Camera, camera charger
Phone, phone charger
iPod, charger
Hat/Gloves/Boots/Scarf/Coat
Silver bullets
Clothes for 2 nights, 2 days
Pajamas
Toiletries
Love letters to Edward, Jacob

I think I’m ready to start packing. Anything I’m missing?

Things I am planning on doing in Forks?

Take photos
Look for vampires, werewolves
Pretend I’m Bella
Giggle
Eat lots of food
Grill
Warm up by a fireplace
Cuddle
Read
Sleep
S t r e t c h o u t
Climb a tree
Do a crossword
Cook eggs and maybe some bacon
Eat chocolate
Look at the stars
Smell. For five minutes. The Earth, the trees, the damp air, everything.
Run on the beach
Giggle.
Enjoy life.

Dear Mr. President,

Dear Mr. President,

Congratulations on the election and all. I was rooting for you. I voted for you. My county in Michigan voted for you by a little over 500 votes. They voted “Democrat” for the first time since the 1950s. Well done.

I am glad that you are doing well. I think that most of your ideas are great, and I know you have many people hard at work around the clock to make America a better place.

That being said, I respectfully disagree with your recent idea of reforming “teacher-pay” in schools. This idea is included in your most recent strategies to overhaul and improve the education system in the United States.

Having “merit-pay” sounds logical, but in reality, this will only further schism the teachers of America. I believe that at this time of devastating loss in the US, the last thing we need is competition in our educators. They should be a haven for our students, a group dedicated to bringing the children of today into the future.

As I sit and look out my window, at the school where I work, I see students at recess. I see their teachers chatting and laughing with each other, and I wonder what the world would be like if those teachers were focused more and more on grades and test scores. I wonder what it’d look like if we evaluated fourth graders on their math, science, and English scores. They may know clauses, algebra, and chemistry, but would they know where Darfur is? Would they know that the Amazon River is in Brazil? Would they know how to paint, how to sing, what a trumpet was?

Paying teachers because they are great teachers is an excellent idea. Getting rid of teachers that are not great communicators and/or educators can be tough, but must be done. This country is full of educators who give their lives to teach students. We owe it to teachers to treat them fairly, but treat them as a team–not a group of individuals striving to be the best.

Striving to be the best was what got us into the mortgage crisis in the first place. Companies were striving to get more customers, go lower, give out the most money. Look what that has brought us: Heartache for the masses, and headache for the government.

We need to remember that the school system in America is not looking to be a part of the free market. Keeping teachers united by realizing that each student, class, teacher, and school is different will keep them a united force.

Test scores may not mean anything at an inner city, overcrowded schools. Taking money away from schools for lower performance on tests will simply give the message that their schools are unwanted and unnecessary. These schools, however, are the ones that will need the most money and the most help, and the best teachers.

There are problems in the school systems. There are ways to fix them, and we need to act quickly. But sometimes what looks good on paper doesn’t look good in practice. Ask a few teachers what they think, but I’m sure most of them will agree with me.

Thank you for your time.

Sincerely,

Jennie

I'm icing my feet, friends.

OK, after Saturday, Sunday, and Monday off, because I slacked off, I went running tonight.

Since daylight savings was this weekend, the sun is out until about 7, which means when I got home around 5:45 going running was a perfect idea. I loaded my mix on, and headed out.

Accomplishment? I ran the entire 10 minutes. I had to cut back my speed and really focus on my breath, but I held a steady jog.

Something to work on? I tied my shoes too tightly and DID NOT wear sneakers to work today, which meant my arches weren’t ready for running. I had to stop a few times and shake it off, including once when I had to get down and re lace my shoes.

I feel good. I have ice shot glasses taped to my feet with duct tape, but I did it. (But, on a lighter note, at least those babies are multiple-purpose. I might have some marketing and patents to work on…)

Next time–I will s t r e t c h out before I head out. That’s my campaign slogan for the year.